If you are was asking yourself the reason why you go to church Or, you are not satisfied with the reasons people give you.
Growing up with my parents, I was not also giving the reasons for going to church also, I just know that on Sunday I have to wake up very early in the morning and follow my mom to church. Later I found out that the children's church is very fun cause we had to do lots of activities and I got interested going to church everytime.
So, growing up as a Christian, I figured out the reasons why my mom wake me every Sunday to prepare for church.

Have analyzed 12 reasons you should consider for going to church..
 
        As Usual Let's Get This Talking Started!!!

#1. Jesus Christ died for the church.

Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
urch and gave himself up for her.


#2. We must be imitators of Christ and His apostles.

 Luke 4:16 He went to Nazareth, where he had been brought up, and on the Sabbath day he went into the synagogue, as was his custom. He stood up to read.

Mark 1:21 Jesus and his companions went to the town of Capernaum. When the Sabbath day came, he went into the synagogue and began to teach.

Luke 6:6 And it came to pass also o n another sabbath, that he entered into the synagogue and taught: and there was a man whose right hand was withered.

Acts 11:26 and when he found him, he brought him to Antioch. So for a whole year Barnabas and Saul met with the church and taught great numbers of people. The disciples were called Christians first at Antioch.

1 Corinthians 11:1 Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.


#3. You learn and better understand Scripture.

 It increases your growth on your walk of faith.
Colossians 3:16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom , singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.

2 Timothy 2:15 Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.

Proverbs 1:5 Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance.

2 Timothy 3:16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.


#4. There is more guidance.

Proverbs 11:14 Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.

Proverbs 24:6 for by wise guidance you can wage your war, and in abundance of counselors there is victory.


#5. To have fellowship with your Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

1 John 1:3 We proclaim to you what we have seen and heard, so that you also may have fellowship with us. And our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ.

Matthew 18:20 For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.

Matthew 28:20 and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.


#6. It is important to have fellowship with other believers.
Share, encourage, teach, love, help, etc.

Hebrews 10:24-25 And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another–and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

 Galatians 6:2 Bear ye one another’s burdens, and
so fulfil the law of Christ.

Acts 2:42-47 They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts . They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.


#7. To worship God.

John 4:23-24 But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.

Psalms 150:6 Let everything that has breath praise the LORD ! Praise the LORD!

1 Corinthians 10:31 So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.

Romans 12:1-2 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.


#8. Christians make up the body of Christ. 

We belong to each other and we are to use what God has equipped us with for good.

Romans 12:4-5 For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others.

Romans 12:6-8 We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.

Ephesians 4:11-12 So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.

 1 Corinthians 12:26-27 If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it. Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.


#9. To be a good example.

1 Timothy 4:12 Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.

Ephesians 5:1-2 Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.


#10. It is important for spiritual growth and spiritual strength.

Colossians 1:9-10 And so, from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that
you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.

1 Peter 2:2-5 Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation, now that you have tasted that the Lord is good. As you come to him, the living Stone—rejected by humans but chosen by God and precious to him you also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.

Ephesians 6:10-18 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people.


#11. To put God first. Instead of doing other things on Sunday go to church.

Matthew 6:33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness , and all these things will be given to you as well.


#12. It is never good to isolate yourself from other believers.

In your time of need how can someone help you? In someone else’s time of need how can you help them? Your spiritual growth will be hindered.

Proverbs 18:1 Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment.

Going to church regularly is doing God’s will. As a reminder just because there are many people in a building doesn’t mean that is a church. Don’t go to a worldly church, but actually get up, stop making stupid excuses, and find a biblical place of worship today!

25 Ways To Be A Happy Person

Life as gone to pass stage not to be happy.
These are few points that makes you live a happy life
  As usual let's get this talking started!

1. Massage . Who wouldn’t mind receiving a pleasant massage? No matter whether it’s performed by a professional or by your spouse, gentle touches make everyone feel happy and good. Especially if it concerns women, who like massages most of all.
2. Talking with friends. When you talk to somebody who understands you very well and who can support you and help you whenever you need – this is true happiness.
3. Walking. You need to spend time outdoors at least an hour a day. Walking outdoors can greatly improve your mood, helps you to keep fit and remain healthy, thus making you a little bit happier.
4. Music. You should listen to music everyday. It can be classics or just a slow and calming melody, which will help you to relax and feel good.
5. Avoid negativeness. Stop thinking only of bad things, get rid of your fears, try to be an optimist . Avoid negative topics for discussing. Don’t watch bad news on TV all the time. All this can make you depressed and not happy at all.
6. Relaxing bath . Prepare a relaxing bath with rose petals and oils (if you want). Giving a little relaxation to your body will make you feel much happier .
7. Meditation, as with other relaxation practices, raises the level of your energy. Try to meditate at least once a day. It’s also very useful to meditate when out in the nature.
8. Shopping. Women love it! But it can be a good thing for men as well. I’m not talking only of clothes, everything counts. Don’t you like to buy something new for yourself? We all like it, don’t we?
9. Dancing. Any kind of dancing is a great thing to raise your mood, express your sexuality, and become happier.
10. Yoga . Yoga practice can soothe your mind and give you more energy. Doing it regularly can be a great step to a happier life.
11. Providing help. No matter how strange it may seem, helping others is a great way to become happier. When doing this you feel positiveness inside you. You know that you’re doing something good.
12. Reading . Read a good book. It’s especially useful to read stories about people’s lives. Studying their fate, you can better understand your own personality.

13. Cooking . It’s a good thing when done together with your beloved. Doing something together will help you both to feel happier.
14. Home . It’s not only a place where you sleep, it;s where you spend most of your time, you relax there, bring up your kids, etc. So do something for your home. Make it as comfortable and nice as you can.
15. Plans . Making plans for your future is a powerful thing. There are no guarantees that all of them will be fulfilled, but the more you plan the bigger are the chances that you’ll succeed in your life.
16. Picnic . Go on a picnic with your family or friends. Spend some time outdoors, enjoying nature, breathing fresh air, having fun.
17. Water is a great generator of a good mood. Starting with a bath or a shower and ending with pools, lakes or seas – this is a great way to relax, feel happy and enjoy your life.
18. Physical activity will not only help you to keep fit and remain healthy but will also improve your mood and will help you to get rid of stress.
19. Healthy lifestyle . Bad habits negatively influence your life. And it’s not only smoking, it may be laziness, spending too much time watching TV, etc. And believe me, if you’re not healthy you are far from being happy.

20. Diary. Keeping a diary will help you to analyze yourself, your failures and success, your relationship, work, etc. It’s a great way to understand yourself.
21. Personal photos . Having a photo album is a great way to recollect on life, think of the happiest moments, thus being happy right now.
22. Love. Yeah, love hurts, but it also gives wings. If you love and you’re loved, then you’re the happiest person is the world, aren’t you?
23. Staying alone . Spend some time alone. It’s a good chance to think over your problems, to analyze your work, make plans for the future.
24. Kids . What can be better than watching your kids grow , playing with them and making them smile and laugh? Isn’t it true happiness?
25. Dignity. Be sure of your uniqueness, only then you’ll find your place in this world.
Remember, happiness isn’t a myth. It’s just all up to you. You build your own fate… and only YOU can do it.

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10 Things Men Must Do To Be Successful.

There is a saying which says "To be a man is not a day job". And it's a must for a man to work towards things before he will be successful.
If you want to be successful, one of the best things you can do is emulate other successful people. While every successful person has his or her own unique approach, there are a lot of common patterns you can find when you read their books and watch interviews and lectures. Here are 10 things that many successful people do each day!

          As usual let's get this talking started!!!

#1. They focus on productivity, not on being busy:

I use to say something to my people "Life as gotten to the stage that we shouldn't work hard anymore, we should work smart".
We live in a pay-by-the-hour sort of world, but if you are an entrepreneur, you should never pay yourself like a boss would pay you! Do not reward yourself for spending time working; reward yourself for getting work done. 1 When you run your own business, you are paid for products and services, not for time.
And what if you want to succeed in a corporate career? Look at it this way. When your productivity far outshines the productivity of your coworkers, you make an impact on your company, and you are the one who is likely to get the promotion!

#2. They set S.M.A.R.T. goals:

What is success? Most people would probably define success as achieving a goal. But you can never be successful if you set unachievable goals. Many goals are unrealistic or too nebulous for follow-through.
Instead, try setting S.M.A.R.T. goals. S.M.A.R.T. is an acronym which stands for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, Timely. The acronym pretty much says it all. These are goals which are concrete, narrowly defined, and which you can measure your progress towards.
You can achieve them within a finite amount of time, and they are relevant to your overall success.
Setting a series of S.M.A.R.T. goals is a great technique for achieving larger, more loosely defined goals. Think of each S.M.A.R.T. goal as a rung on the ladder of overall success!

#4. They exercise and eat right:

We should know that "all work and no play makes jack a dull boy"
Just because you are working doesn't mean that you should have time for yourself.
Sometimes I use to tell people that "Sometimes just be busy doing nothing"
Successful people who stay that way over the long term do not abuse their bodies. They take time each day to prepare and eat healthy meals and to work out. Even President Barack Obama manages to find time to get up every morning and exercise before work, often for 90 minutes a day.
If the most powerful (and busy) man in the world has time for a daily workout, so do you!

#5. They lead balanced lives:

In the professional world, there is a lot of pressure always to be working. If you are not working 20 hours and sleeping 4, you must not want it badly enough. That is what people will tell you in pretty much any field.
However, that is simply not true, and people who live that way will eventually burn out and crash hard. They think they can sacrifice their health, relationships, and leisure time for a few hard years and then coast for the rest of their lives. Rarely if ever does entrepreneurship actually work this way. Most successful entrepreneurs work very hard for a long time.
That just makes it more important than ever to find time for other important things in your life, and especially for important people! A healthy, balanced life is necessary if you are going to have the strength to hang in there for the long term.

It also is essential to remember why you want success. Most of us want monetary success to support our lifestyles and families. But if you throw out your life and family along the way, what success will you have achieved?

#6. They are realistically optimistic.

Successful people focus on the positive wherever possible—but not blindly. Optimism helps us spot opportunities we would miss if we were focusing on the negative.

While you must always plan for the future and for potential pitfalls, you must believe there is a way across the chasms that gape below. Otherwise you will turn back long before the journey is complete, or take a fall along the way.

#7. They make the most of their networks.

The most successful people never try to go it alone if they do not have to, and they always look for opportunities to network and expand their circle of friends and business associates.

They realize that every conversation is an opportunity, and could hold the seed of potential for a new business relationship or venture. When they find themselves facing harsh times, they reach out to others for ideas. When others in their networks struggle, they offer solutions.

#8. They keep failure in perspective.

You have probably met businesspeople who take pride in having very little experience with failure—or so they claim. But those people are typically lying to your or not as successful as they seem. Maybe they just got lucky and built an empire on a stroke of fate or a large inheritance.

In reality, success is typically built on a series of failures and lessons learned. Do not let your past failures weigh you down or make you feel like a failure. Successful people learn from failures every day and recognize that so long as they do, they are still on the road to success.

#9.They log their progress.

You cannot navigate toward a goal if you have no way to measure your progress. This goes back to setting S.M.A.R.T. goals. Remember that the “M” stands for “Measurable.” Many successful people keep a journal or log of some sort. This is true for stock traders, authors, business CEOs and others in all walks of life.

#10. They know how to set boundaries.

Many of us are raised never to say the word “no,” but sometimes you have to say “no.” Not every business proposition is a good one, and not all partners are the right ones. Successful people realize they cannot take on every single project or work with every single person. They know they sometimes have to back off and take care of themselves first.
Of course, if you can say “no” in a creative way that still leaves the door open for future opportunities, that is often a great idea!
Do not be afraid to occasionally say “no” to your own ambition as well. This goes back to the work-life balance point discussed earlier. You need to sometimes say “no” to another hour of work and “yes” to taking a little time off. It may not feel like you are working hard enough, but you are! You need time for you too.

We hope you enjoyed these 10 tips and tricks for daily success! These are all simple changes you can make to your day-to-day life. So wake up today and start setting S.M.A.R.T. goals. Network, set boundaries when you need to, exercise, lead a balanced life, and take that leap you have been putting off!

And the most important and the first thing to do is to put the vision of goal in the hands of God before any of the thing listed above.

       Thanks!!!
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Nija Gists: 30 Most Powerful Pick up Line That Works Like Magi...

Nija Gists: 30 Most Powerful Pick up Line That Works Like Magi...: Yesterday I talked about "How to make a girl like you for the first time meeting her" and promised to talk about this topic today....

30 Most Powerful Pick up Line That Works Like Magic

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How to talk And Make Her Like You For The First Time You Met Her

To all my loving readers, especially the guys, if you have ever been rejected by a girl just by talking to her due the fact that you are just meeting her for the first time this article will really be very important to you cause I have come up with a tested tips that works better than "Have we met before" or "I know have met you before" Bro! If you are still doing that then you have to go back to the 19s cause this is not your century. But for you not to go, I have come out with these tips that works like magic, if done in a right way you can get any kind of girl or woman, if you are just meeting her for the first time.
                    Let's Get Started!!!

Be Sure Of yourself:
Before walking up to a girl, gather much courage, never think that the girl will not agree or may snub you at the end. Immediately you see a girl, have it in mind that the girl is yours, that's the positive spirit.
•Never think of anything before you go meet her (suprised right?)
•You don't need to wear a suit or a $20k shirt before you can talk to a girl
•Be real and confident

First Impression Matters:
You may be surprised that in the point 1, I said that you should not talk of anything before meeting with her. The point is that, you are to talk about the cloth she is wearing or what she is doing or what she is eating, just anything that are body is engaging on.
Example, you can see her with an earpiece on(obviously listening to a music) you walk up to her and ask, "Is that Hello By Adele" the point is that you must get it wrong. You have obviously gotten her attention or you can try this when you both her in a hurry " You instantly got my attention immediately I saw you, Can I get your number at least to get to know you better" sounds simple right? (By tomorrow I will Be writing an article "30 pick up lines for ladies")
•Dont Talk About Irrelevant Things!!!!!

Make Her Chase You:
 Now that she is relaxed, comfortable, and the girl is interested in you. You to signal your interest in a girl in a way that will actually make you become more attractive to the girl. Women want a man with standards and qualification is your way of showing that for a girl to keep your interest she needs to be more than just a pretty face.
To get a girl to qualify herself, all you have to do is prompt her with a question that will get her talking about herself“so what kind of things do you do for fun?” or “what adventures have you been up to lately?” If you’re meeting a girl in the daytime or in a low-key environment, simply asking “so what do you have going on the rest of the day?” is a perfectly good question to ask a girl that will get her to open to you

Build A Sexual Feeling With Her:

Start with light, playful taps at the beginning of the interaction, and gradually touch her more and for longer periods of time.

Aside from touch, another important factor in building sexual attraction with women is to be open and honest with your interest in her. It’s no secret women want confident men, and saying exactly what you’re feeling without holding back is a great way to show that confidence with women.

Get a woman turned on with your confidence, verbally express your interest in the woman. If you’re in a sexually charged environment like a club, just come out and say “you’re really turning me on right now”. If you’re meeting a girl in the daytime – or someplace where the sexual energy isn’t as potent, something like “I really dig you, let’s go get coffee together” works great. Really, whatever it is you’re feeling at the moment is exactly what you should say to the woman.


Ask For Her Contact:
You have Gained the right courage and you have used the right sets of words, what are you waiting for bro! Ask for her contact! The best contact you can ask for, is her mobile cell number. You can also ask jokingly "Hope that's not a fake number? or Obviously not your dad's?".
•Directly ask for are mobile cell number.
•Dont ask for nonsense contact.
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The Best And Only Way To Build A Long Lasting Relationship

The word "Relationship" goes beyond "you have to be caring, loving etc" but it really goes beyond that. Have seen a lots of sites, blogs and other forums who as talked about these topic a lot "how to have a long lasting relationship" "how to make your relationship grow" "how to create a strong relationship" blah blah blah...But they are missing one thing, what the word "Relationship" really means, maybe because they write due to assumption or what they see on another persons forum, lol, who knows.
   But, I will actually dig deep on what it really means to you and not forgetting  the topic, how to make it last longer
               
                     Let's get this talking started!

#Understanding What You Actually Feel:

Before starting a relationship with him or her you have to be sure of what you feel for the person so you will know what to remember any time problems comes.

•Don't just get into a relationship because you think he or she will fit in the space

•Understand what you feel for him or her

•If you don't feel love for the guy or girl don't bother yourself atall...(you will be wasting yours  and Theirs).

#The Right Sets Of Communication And Reaction:

As a guy or a lady you should be prepared to listen to what your partner as to say. For instance As a guy you may see a girl with a curvy body and a super b ass (winks) but it is not appropriate to get your eyes off your partner also to the lady's side too.

•Maintain a perfect eye contact with your partner(Don't make a scary face that will make him or her nervous) Just make an attentive look

•Always ask questions relating to what your partner is talking about... you shouldnt ask him or her how the night you two spent together went when he or she is taking about what happened in the offices.

#Respect Your Partner:

The word respect goes beyond treating that person like your mom or dad,it deals with not cheating on them with anyone.And if you would even want to have a side-chick as a guy, you shouldn't make it known or obvious to her or even make her feel that she is being cheated ( Am going to write an aticle on how not to allow the person you really love know you have a side-chick) But you shouldn't cheat on someone you really love..not cool!

•Never treat that person like a slave else a buyer will come and take him or her away ( you won't like it trust me).

•Make the person feel important in front of your friends (we are coming back to that though).

#Solve Problems Or Issues Together:

Relationship is not about Me, I, You, Its about We, and Us. Every relationship as ups and down, happiness and sadness etc. The point is problems should be solved together, You wouldn't want someone else to solve it for your partner..nah nah nah,I myself wouldn't want that to happen...lol

•Example,financial problems or something,you should seat yourselves and talk about how you will handle it or if you are going to cut off some other expenses....the point is to solve it together... be the super hero!

•Use the word "We"...ok let me give an example so you will grab..."We will get through this dear" you can see that, your partner is the only one with the problem but you have made it sound like it's  two of you having the problem, You can also use the word "Us" Example, "Let Us find a way to settle these problem Together"...

#Never Open Up Any Secret Told To You By Your Partner:

This is also a really critical point,for having a lasting relationship. Not everyone is like the kardashians who wants the world to know what goes on in their private lives.

•Do not open up secret when you are having issues. If you do, you are proving not to be trusted.

#Constantly Prove Your Love For Your Partner:

People say "Actions speaks faster than Words" True though but I want to say to you today that you should make does words (Words And Action) Work hand in hand, cause what you say to you partner matters a lot (and always be careful of words you use with them).
•Always let them know that someone have there back

•Always  use the sentence "I love you"

•Always pick to your promise...

•Never make them jealous,rather make people jealous

•Never say "Am too good for you" (Then why are you with him or her if you are too good for them) common!

Other things you shouldn't forget,
•Don't force,
•Don't cheat,
•Don't Lie,
•Don't Disrespect,
•Don't Be Always There( Common, give then some space,they also have a life),
•Trust And Be Trusted,
•Suprise Them,
•Remember Important Days And Anniversary.

Trust me with all these added with the special things you have for that special someone, I want to congratulate you on having a long lasting relationship with your baby...

                          THANKS!
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