The Best And Only Way To Build A Long Lasting Relationship

The word "Relationship" goes beyond "you have to be caring, loving etc" but it really goes beyond that. Have seen a lots of sites, blogs and other forums who as talked about these topic a lot "how to have a long lasting relationship" "how to make your relationship grow" "how to create a strong relationship" blah blah blah...But they are missing one thing, what the word "Relationship" really means, maybe because they write due to assumption or what they see on another persons forum, lol, who knows.
   But, I will actually dig deep on what it really means to you and not forgetting  the topic, how to make it last longer
               
                     Let's get this talking started!

#Understanding What You Actually Feel:

Before starting a relationship with him or her you have to be sure of what you feel for the person so you will know what to remember any time problems comes.

•Don't just get into a relationship because you think he or she will fit in the space

•Understand what you feel for him or her

•If you don't feel love for the guy or girl don't bother yourself atall...(you will be wasting yours  and Theirs).

#The Right Sets Of Communication And Reaction:

As a guy or a lady you should be prepared to listen to what your partner as to say. For instance As a guy you may see a girl with a curvy body and a super b ass (winks) but it is not appropriate to get your eyes off your partner also to the lady's side too.

•Maintain a perfect eye contact with your partner(Don't make a scary face that will make him or her nervous) Just make an attentive look

•Always ask questions relating to what your partner is talking about... you shouldnt ask him or her how the night you two spent together went when he or she is taking about what happened in the offices.

#Respect Your Partner:

The word respect goes beyond treating that person like your mom or dad,it deals with not cheating on them with anyone.And if you would even want to have a side-chick as a guy, you shouldn't make it known or obvious to her or even make her feel that she is being cheated ( Am going to write an aticle on how not to allow the person you really love know you have a side-chick) But you shouldn't cheat on someone you really love..not cool!

•Never treat that person like a slave else a buyer will come and take him or her away ( you won't like it trust me).

•Make the person feel important in front of your friends (we are coming back to that though).

#Solve Problems Or Issues Together:

Relationship is not about Me, I, You, Its about We, and Us. Every relationship as ups and down, happiness and sadness etc. The point is problems should be solved together, You wouldn't want someone else to solve it for your partner..nah nah nah,I myself wouldn't want that to happen...lol

•Example,financial problems or something,you should seat yourselves and talk about how you will handle it or if you are going to cut off some other expenses....the point is to solve it together... be the super hero!

•Use the word "We"...ok let me give an example so you will grab..."We will get through this dear" you can see that, your partner is the only one with the problem but you have made it sound like it's  two of you having the problem, You can also use the word "Us" Example, "Let Us find a way to settle these problem Together"...

#Never Open Up Any Secret Told To You By Your Partner:

This is also a really critical point,for having a lasting relationship. Not everyone is like the kardashians who wants the world to know what goes on in their private lives.

•Do not open up secret when you are having issues. If you do, you are proving not to be trusted.

#Constantly Prove Your Love For Your Partner:

People say "Actions speaks faster than Words" True though but I want to say to you today that you should make does words (Words And Action) Work hand in hand, cause what you say to you partner matters a lot (and always be careful of words you use with them).
•Always let them know that someone have there back

•Always  use the sentence "I love you"

•Always pick to your promise...

•Never make them jealous,rather make people jealous

•Never say "Am too good for you" (Then why are you with him or her if you are too good for them) common!

Other things you shouldn't forget,
•Don't force,
•Don't cheat,
•Don't Lie,
•Don't Disrespect,
•Don't Be Always There( Common, give then some space,they also have a life),
•Trust And Be Trusted,
•Suprise Them,
•Remember Important Days And Anniversary.

Trust me with all these added with the special things you have for that special someone, I want to congratulate you on having a long lasting relationship with your baby...

                          THANKS!
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